So, I've just read the book He's Just Not That in to You. After several recommendations from my wonderful hair cuttress and friend, Shelia...I recommend if you're a single lady---read it! It is very down to earth, no holds barred, and uses humor. There is language and maybe all of the chapters won't relate to you...but it could be ammo to help a dear friend :)...I have recently experienced what is so wonderfully described in the "He's just not that into you if he disappeared on you" chapter. So, I'm pretty sure that there will be at least one chapter (probably more) with which you can relate. There's even a movie coming out in February. Below is the link to the trailer...
http://www.imdb.com/rg/VIDEO_PLAY/LINK//video/screenplay/vi4024303897/